When ‘Pro-life’ Is Not Pro Life: The Women’s March, The Sisters of Charity and The National Maternity Hospital

So I thought I’d ease you back into reading the blog by starting with this: the fraught issue of the health and well-being of women and children in historical and contemporary Ireland in relation to medical, educational and social services as provided by the Catholic Church.

Are you feeling more relaxed already?  Good.

A lot of people here are not feeling relaxed at present and here’s why.  The National Maternity Hospital, the busiest in Ireland and famous as the birthplace of Amy, needs bigger and better facilities.  The proposed new site is an existing hospital campus owned by the Sisters of Charity, and this is where it gets interesting.  The hospital will cost €300 million of taxpayer money and ownership will be handed over the the Sisters because they own the land and founded the hospital already on the campus.

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Not big enough and no parking

The Sisters of Charity ran some of the infamous Magdalene Laundries which, according to a 2013 report investigating abuse that took place, were guilty of the ‘enslavement’ of an estimated 30,000 women and children until the last one closed in 1996.  The facts are well established and are not under debate: they were workhouses in which women and girls were imprisoned, often without knowing why and always without knowing when or if they’d be released.  The stories of survivors of the laundries make for harrowing reading.

In 1993 the discovery of a mass grave containing the remains of 155 people on the grounds of a former Magdalene laundry in Dublin led the UN Committee on the Rights of the Child to call for a government inquiry into what took place in the laundries.  As a result, in 2013 the State issued a formal apology to survivors and families of victims and set up a €60 million compensation scheme.  Despite repeated calls by the government and the UN Committee Against Torture, the Catholic Church has refused to contribute to this fund.

In 2002, following a separate investigation into child abuse in other residential institutions, the Sisters of Charity were party to a financial redress scheme for abuse survivors. This involved property transfer to the State which has not yet taken place.  In 2009 they offered a further €5 million, of which they have paid only €2 million.  To put this into perspective, the Sisters of Charity own St Vincent’s Healthcare Group which operates three hospitals and had an income of more than €400 million in 2015. It has a net value of approximately €110 million.

The idea of handing over a hospital built with taxpayer money to a religious order which has reneged on promises of restitution to the victims of the abuse it perpetrated for over 200 years is a problem for the more than 100,000 people who have so far signed a petition protesting it, but it’s not the only one.  Not by a long way.

In Ireland abortion is illegal.  The only exception is when it is a medical intervention necessary to save the life of the mother.  This occurred on 26 occasions in 2014 and the same in 2015, so it’s obviously not being used as a doorway to abortion on demand.  However, the exact ruling isn’t clear and as a result Savita Halappanavar, a 31-year-old dentist 17 weeks pregnant with her first child, died of sepsis at University Hospital Galway in 2012 following a uterine rupture which went untreated for several days because there was still a foetal heartbeat.  The baby had no chance of survival; the mother could have been saved.  There were protests in the streets.  There have been cases of women dying after being denied cancer treatment while pregnant.  It doesn’t happen often, but it happens.

I’m glad I didn’t know that this was a possibility when I was pregnant here in 2002.  Can you imagine, in this day in age, in a developed country, being pregnant and knowing that if something happens – a uterine rupture, an ectopic pregnancy – you could go to a University Hospital – a reputable, brainy, modern-sounding place – where they would watch you die rather than risk hurting a foetus that has zero chance of turning into a surviving baby?  Because this is a Catholic country and Catholics are pro-life?

Well, many of the people of Ireland aren’t too thrilled with this state of affairs either.  So when it became public knowledge that their tax euros, all €300 million of them, would be spent on a hospital to be given into the ownership of a religious order who not only haven’t paid their torture bills but are also dead set against not only terminations in any form but also IVF, sterilisations and gender-reassignment surgeries, all hell broke loose.

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The boss of the National Maternity Hospital has repeatedly said that although the Sisters of Charity would own the place, and would sit on the Board, the running of it would be completely independent and the nuns would have nothing to do with the medical side of things, but it’s not good enough.  What I see, what’s very plain to see, is that there is a huge, deep seam of pain and betrayal that runs through the Irish collective memory, and it’s not very far from the surface at all.

This, I’ve decided, is the real issue behind the current movement around abortion law reform.  The 8th Amendment, the current law, places equal importance on the lives of the mother and the baby, meaning that one cannot choose to terminate the other even in cases of rape, incest or fatal foetal abnormality.  Each year thousands of women travel to the UK and other European countries for terminations. and there is a rising tide of dissatisfaction with this state of affairs.

On March 8th, International Women’s Day, the centre of Dublin was filled with people demanding a re-think of the state’s abortion laws:

 

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It’s about more than wanting to be able to access a termination without having to leave the country.  It’s about the fact that from 1922 when the Irish Free State was formed it has been run in practical, day-to-day terms not by the Irish Government but by the Roman Catholic Church, and their attitude towards women and children has been one of hatred and brutality.  It’s not just the laundries but the mother-and-baby homes, the orphanages, the industrial schools, the paedophile clergy, the asylums for people with disabilities, the symphysiotomies. If you don’t know what a symphysiotomy is, don’t Google it because it comes into the category of things you’ll wish you could un-know.  It was a horrific and crippling medical procedure used not for the health or well-being of mother or baby but to make sure that the mother could continue to have as many children as possible, and it ruined many lives, and you don’t want further details, believe me.

There have now been wide-ranging investigations into all the above and they paint a picture of generations of women and children traumatised, marginalised, stigmatised and abused because women were seen as breeding stock (although sex was sinful) and children seen as brownie points to please God.  Priests were all-powerful and the Church dominated Irish life.  If you doubt the scale, if you think I’m exaggerating, ponder this: the State inquiry into abuse in church-run institutions incurred €1.5 billion in redress costs. One and a half billion euros.  To date the Catholic religious congregations who ran the institutions where children were abused have paid just 13% of their portion, although they all own properties and run businesses turning over multi millions.

Now, however, people are finding their voices.  People are starting to say, why would we trust you to make decisions for us?  Why would we put our health in your hands?  Why do you get to legislate around reproductive rights when you’ve been treating women and children with, literally, criminal negligence for hundreds of years?  The young women of Ireland are standing up and saying:

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People are saying, don’t tell me that I can’t choose an abortion because we’re pro-life when you were running mother-and-baby homes where infant mortality rates were known to be horrifically high and where staff were running a lucrative illegal trade in baby-selling to rich Americans.  Don’t tell me that watching a mother die of sepsis because a non-viable foetus had a beating heart for a few extra days makes you qualified to tell me what God thinks of me.  Don’t tell me anything.

It seems to me that Ireland is in the early days of a revolution in terms of demanding the separation of church and state.  There is dissatisfaction with the fact that most children get a Catholic education or none at all.  Over 90% of schools are Catholic and the others have huge waiting lists.  I know because we tried them.  Of the non-Catholic schools the vast majority are still faith schools; if you want a secular education for your child here you have 3% of the schools in the country to choose from.

People do not hate Catholicism.  Every weekday morning the carpark at our local church, Our Lady of Victories, is full in time for 9 o’clock mass.  It’s mostly the Nissan Micra and Toyota Yaris brigade, but still.  Catholicism is part of the national identity; it was so important after 1922 because it set the Irish apart from the British, and it still is.  But lots of people are saying quite loudly that they want it to stay contained within churches.  They want to go to hospital knowing they’ll be treated in accordance with medical best practice, not with the moral edicts of a particular religious denomination.  They want to send their children to school knowing that they will not be proselytised; that if their choice is athiesm or agnosticism or anything else, it will be respected.

Plenty of people still love and support the church, they just want its power limited.  The whole argument is summed up nicely here:

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Recently the remains of 796 babies were found in a septic tank on the site of a former mother-and-baby home run by the Bon Secours nuns in Tuam, County Galway.  Nobody knows (or is admitting to knowing) whether it was used as a septic tank at the time the babies were put there or whether it was simply a handy large empty space.  It doesn’t really matter, though.  If you put dead babies in their hundreds in a septic tank you don’t get to claim the moral high ground on anything, ever.  And you certainly don’t get to claim to be pro-life.

Next time there will be fun stuff and pretty pictures, I promise.

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Out and Proud in Dublin Town

Back in June all the Amazon employees and their friends and families were invited to walk in the annual Dublin Pride parade.  Free food, drinks, t-shirts and sunglasses were offered along with face-painting and an after-party at a pub called Howl At The Moon.

Okay, we said.  Why not.

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The pre-match function was held in the atrium of one of the Amazon buildings and believe me, it’s not easy to get into these places.  Amazon are big on confidentiality and there is security.  They have buildings in Dublin so secret that even the employees aren’t allowed to know where they are.  Well, I suppose the ones who work in those specific offices are, but if they told you they’d have to kill you.

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The pink elephant table centrepiece. All good parties have them.

When we told the children that we were going to be in the parade there was a mixed response.  Daniel wanted to know if it would be hours of standing around like the St Patrick’s Day one was.  No, we said, it would be hours of walking slowly instead.  With free stuff.  Suck it up.  Noah was amenable as always.  Cassia was thrilled because she’d loved the St Patrick’s Day parade and since then had harboured a secret dream of being able to participate one day.  Amy, to our surprise, was relieved.  She had wished to join the march – I have no idea how she knew about it – but didn’t think she’d be allowed.

‘What?’ we said. ‘There’s no allowed about it.  Daddy gets a free drinks voucher for Howl At The Moon for every person who participates.  It’s compulsory‘.

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The Amazon atrium. The curved roofs are these weird sort of covered-wagon shaped booths for sitting in. There are also pool, foosball and table tennis tables. Our theory is that they monitor them by CCTV to find out which employees aren’t working hard enough.

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You’ve met the eye-candy in the white shorts before. That’s Isaac from the Intercontinental.  You probably want a better look so click away.

Amy, feeling the full weight of the responsibility of being a teenager and needing causes to be strident about – even when nobody’s disagreeing anyway – swung into action at breakfast that morning when Daniel was moaning about having to do all that walking.  I came in in time to hear her saying ‘…and they’ve been beaten…and mutilated…’

I don’t know what the heck she’s been reading but Daniel seemed unimpressed.

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On her other cheek, remembering St Patrick’s Day, her single previous parade experience, she requested an Irish flag. ‘Good woman’, the face painter told her. ‘Fair play to you!’  Irish Pride indeed.

So we put on the shirts, lined up for the most talented face paint artists I’ve ever seen, played with the lip-shaped party blowers, and ate a lot.

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I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: that child has never been photographed with a normal expression.

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On the party bus. Noah had to wait until his eighth birthday to lose his first tooth; he’s kindly giving you a great view of the gap here.  Noah doesn’t do face paint, in case you were wondering.

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A rare and elusive sight in photographs: me.

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You can see how excited he is.

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And we’re off.

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Noah, Josh, me, Daniel and Cassia’s balloons are visible in this one.

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Any of these photos that are well-focused, well-lit or trendily tilted are courtesy of the professional photographer, not me.

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Amy, Josh, Noah, Cassia and a thousand new friends.

 

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Cassia didn’t start out with any balloons; people just donated them along the way. It made her much easier to keep track of.  Every few metres (at least for the first half hour or so) she’d skip with excitement and say to herself ‘I’m in a parade!  I can’t believe I’m in a parade!

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Yes, Amazon owns a frog-coloured Kombi.  It says ‘Packages come in all shapes and sizes’. Ironic really because although they have a ridiculous number of enormous buildings in Dublin none of them are warehouses so nobody much ever orders anything of any shape or size because of the hefty delivery fee payable in pounds sterling.

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Cassia, Daniel and the O’Connell Monument.

Amy and Daniel understood what we were marching for.  We explained to Noah and Cassia that when you stand with people who are less powerful and get bullied it makes them stronger and more powerful, and that it’s always our duty to do this.  They didn’t care, frankly; they would have marched for anything involving face paint and balloons.

They may care later on though.  I’ve known four-year-olds who are clearly somewhere along the LGBTQ spectrum but you can’t always tell and who knows which children will reach adolescence and realise that they are, or may be, out of the heterosexual box in some way?  Young people in this situation are at higher risk than average of suffering from depression and of eventually taking their own lives.  It’s worth the sore feet once a year to make sure that if any of these children are mine they’ll at least grow up sure of the fact that whichever way they’re wired they’ll still be perfect in our eyes.

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Rainbow flags under one of the Easter Rising commemorative murals. Independence comes in many forms. The Pride Parade theme was ‘Rebel Rebel’ in honour of the 1916 Centenary.

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The iconic GPO, centre of the 1916 Rising.

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The beautiful Harp Bridge (officially the Samuel Beckett Bridge) over the Liffey. It’s a real working instrument; for special occasions they unhook something and it’s calibrated to play music as the wind passes through. Is that awesome or what?

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Supporting the Gay Pride Parade in Dublin City Centre. Pic Steve Humphreys 25th June 2016.

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LGBTQ refugees. Some people really have the odds stacked against them, don’t they?

Dolores Quinlan and Valerie O'Dwyer both from Cellbridge supporting the Gay Pride Parade in Dublin City Centre. Pic Steve Humphreys 25th June 2016.

I mostly just went along for fun, because Dublin is relatively progressive and Ireland has marriage equality – it was the first country in the world to achieve this by popular vote and is seen as one of the most liberal countries in the world in terms of attitude –  so it’s not like they really needed me.  I didn’t expect to be as touched as I was by the feeling of celebration, by the feeling of gratitude.  It hadn’t occurred to me that we would be the show and that everybody else was our audience.  In fact there were so many people parading that I’m surprised there was anyone left in County Dublin to be the audience.  There were, though, tens of thousands of them and they were all cheering for us.

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And it was profound.  We would walk past groups of people and they’d start waving and cheering.  Many were families and children but there were plenty of gay couples and I’d be thinking, what are you cheering for me for?  I should be applauding you.  I’m just walking down O’Connell Street in my Amazon t-shirt; you’ve probably spent a lifetime facing prejudice and bigotry for being who you were born to be.

The ones that actually brought a tear to my eye were the older couples.  We passed several pairs of men of, let’s say, relatively advanced age who were not dressed flamboyantly or wearing Carmen Miranda fruit-baskets on their heads but who were standing together watching the parade with dignity.  Homosexuality was decriminalised in 1993 so they would have spent many years presumably hiding their true selves, having to love in secret, unable to live life in all its fullness.

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No wonder the Pride movement is drenched in colour.  The atmosphere of the day from start to finish was exuberant; it was bright and rainbow as far as you could see in every direction.  It was singing, cheering, music, dancing, flags and banners and balloons all celebrating life in glorious colour.  It’s a great metaphor for the new freedoms that so many people can now enjoy.

It’s still not perfect, of course.  But it’s better here than in many countries.  Irish citizens are free to self-declare their gender on passports, driving licences, updated birth certificates and marriage licences.  Same-sex couples can legally jointly adopt children and step-children.  It’s surprising to me because one of the basic tenets of orthodox Catholicism is that the only chaste sex is that which is open to the transmission of life (hence the belief that contraception is wrong as it causes sex to become ‘a grave sin’ even within marriage) which clearly disqualifies same-sex couples.  Given the hard line they have taken on so many other things  – you couldn’t get a divorce in Ireland until 1996, and you couldn’t buy condoms without a prescription until 1992 –  I wouldn’t have expected Ireland to be one of the most progressive countries in the world regarding LBGTQ issues. I have no idea how it’s happened but it’s a great thing.  It’s something to be proud of.

I felt humbled to be walking past people who have only recently become entitled to basic rights that I’ve taken for granted my whole life and to hear them cheering for us.  It wasn’t just about the free t-shirt in the end.  It was about saying, I am so happy for you all.  I am glad that there are tens of thousands of people here who think that you are worth dressing up and marching for.  I am proud to be part of such a huge demonstration of solidarity and love.  I am proud to be bringing up children here.  Well done Ireland.

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